You usually get just one shot at sliding into someone’s DMs. Get it wrong, and you’ll never get a response,...
Recently, on a four-month solo trip around Mexico, I got seriously lonely. That spiralling, sad, isolated feeling caused by endless...
Happy Metamour Day! Today is all about celebrating a type of relationship that is fundamental to polyamory: metamours. So, what exactly...
Being friends with an ex used to be something I found hard to imagine. I would sever contact pretty quickly...
If I’ve learnt anything from the past couple of years of exploring non-monogamy, it’s this: don’t mess with other people’s...
When it comes to non-monogamous terminology, labels like lap-sitting, garden party and kitchen table polyamory can be confusing. What does...
If you’ve watched Jack Rooke’s comedy show, Big Boys, on UK’s Channel 4, you may have noticed that the second episode...
From time to time, questions land in my inbox and DMs from people asking for polyamory advice. That’s not surprising, considering I...
Today is an exciting day because the latest episode of Ruby Rare’s podcast has just come out – and I’m...
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about commitment in non-monogamous relationships. What does it look like? What does it mean?...
Reading is quite a fascinating experience. Like a snapshot of a particular place in time, it lets us look into...
I have something uncomfortable to admit: one of the biggest things I struggle with in my dating life is my...