People say there are less polyamorous people over 40 – but Dr Marie Thouin is here with the stats (and dating advice) you need for finding people your age.
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Exploring polyamory
How to get started
One of the most important things I’ve learnt while exploring ethical non-monogamy is that support is out there....
From time to time, questions land in my inbox and DMs from people asking for polyamory advice. That’s not surprising,...
Like a lot of people new to polyamory, I read The Ethical Slut once and figured I knew everything there...
Snuggle up with some self-love
Moving on up
How to get over a break-up
I look back at the main steps I took that initially helped me to overcome heartbreak a few years ago and allowed me to heal and move on.
Being friends with an ex used to be something I found hard to imagine. I would sever...
Queering the screen
What to watch
When Hulu’s cringe comedy PEN15 came out in 2019, I wasn’t really...
If you’ve watched Jack Rooke’s comedy show, Big Boys, on UK’s...
I’ve been rewatching the original TV series recently in anticipation...

Today is an exciting day because the latest episode of Ruby Rare’s podcast has just...
Can you imagine if someone had told you on New Year’s Eve what would happen...
As the queer love triangle movie Passages hits screens, here are some of my favourite films exploring similar dynamics.
Who Paul?
Lifting the veil on the world of drag
Minka: Hi everyone. Welcome to a new feature on Minka Guides which is...
I’m often asked ‘can women be drag queens?’ or ‘explain to me...
Almost adulting
Grown-up life advice
As I look back at my 30s, my career change stands out...
I turn 40 next week. Yup, that milestone birthday’s finally here. How...
Hello there 40. I’ve finally arrived. Not sure what my younger self...
What does 40 look like? When I reached this milestone earlier this year, I...